Life throws us many obstacles, and normally we don't ask for them. Whenever we go through something tragic, or surprising, we automatically switch to the dramatic mode. At least that's how it is in my family, we claim that the sky is falling. This horrible thing just has to be the end of the world, it can't get much worse than this, but honestly it can. Sometimes when you're so close to a situation you don't realize how small of a problem it may actually be, or vise versa, maybe it actually is a huge problem. Whether big or small, my point is the sky isn't falling. I have recently learned this lesson myself, it's important to take a step back and look at the whole picture. The situation you're faced with might surprise you but what will surprise you even more is when you take a deep breath and realize everything you were over looking.